You both make good points, and I am trying not to sabotage this, we spoke to the Retro people last night, both H and I had to speak to them, H seemed very certain about the whole thing, so that I am glad about, I was worried that he would run when he found it is a catholic based thing, although they say that its not. He does seem very positive about it now, so I am keeping my fingers crossed, to be honest its hard not to when they are so positive! So we will be attending mid september, its funny its going to be 15 minutes away from my house, but we have to stay in a hotel! It will be a nice break, which H and I haven't had at all since this whole thing started back last October.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!