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He takes so much and gives so little.


Doesn't that kind of say it all right there?

Who had the affair...


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My H tells me that he wants to live together again because it will force him to work on things and be less selfish.


Ya, that works, force it. (shaking head)

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I am thinking that I would like to see him be less selfish BEFORE we live together again.


Kinda answered yourself at the start of this post.

good luck from another in the PNW

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cire


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Back with high school sweety after 30 years..