Husband, Your kewl !!! I had my ephinany today. I am done. She is dead to me. Kaplooy. Burden was gone. It isn't my problem anymore. It is now solely and completly hers. Kids know the truth. Friends, family, etc. I'm done. I've given her freedom. I've given all responsibility for her actions to her. These are now her consequences and hers alone. The BoBeLiNaEtTeS and I are now safe. We have a safe place. No chaos. Love, integrity, honesty, etc. They are different. You guys have said to be strong for them. Being strong for them shows in them. All is going good. Your still Kewl. Thanks. BoB
