Second, I don't think I've made much progress with my H, but I'm still working on things. We talked yesterday and he sounded worried, I asked him what was wrong and he said he didn't know the future of his group at work. He mentioned talking to another dept to see if he could switch over if his group didn't get any new work. I told him that I'd been praying about this and what would happen if he were to be laid off. I offered to support him if he wanted to go back to school full time and get a different degree. I told him I hope that it didn't sound like a bribe but I wasn't trying to come across like that. I just wanted him to know my level of committment (sp?) and that I wanted him to be happy. He said to let him see what happens when he talks to the other group about a job. I said the offer stood regardless of another job offer b/c I knew he wasn't happy in his field. I also said it didn't have to happen now b/c classes have already begun and he may have to wait until next year. I don't know if that was the right thing to do but it was something that I'd been praying about for a while and it seemed like a relevent time to bring it up since he was stressed over his job. Who knows.