I don't care what your husband says, you can't logically tell me that he wanted you to continue speaking with OM (I know you aren't speaking to him now, but that's immaterial). I don't care if he was a 'friend' (I don't see why would want to be friends with someone that deliberately tried to destroy your marriage, but that's another issue), you chose the selfish road because it was better for you, not better for your husband or better for your marriage. Shame on you for that.
SOP
SOP - If you don't have anything to offer besides blame, go back to your own thread. We're all in pain here, but you don't have a right to project the pain from your spouse onto someone who has the guts to come on this site and tell us what it's like to be the WAS in an affair.
Larry
M 63 W 40 M 4/91 S14/D9 bomb 7/6/07 D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08 thread
