Well - Mr. LQT is an exec software sales dude, with a fairly new gig that he likes much better than his old one due to more $, better territory, etc. He gets plenty of exercise - weightlifting (3-4x/wk), motorcrossing, jetskiing, mtn biking in the canyon... he is a bit of a testosterone junkie. He can let loose, but he is often irritable (I think too much caffeine) and he definitely likes his own space - always has. He cares about me and is a nice guy (won't kill bugs, etc.) but definitely puts himself and his own time first (imho). I don't bitch (too much - unless I haven't gotten any in more than a week) when he goes out foosballing in bars with a pal on a weekend night or off for 5 hours to get to a motocross track. I don't think it's too much to ask to get some action just for a bit (20-30min) at least every other night...
36 y/o HD in committed monogomous relationship for 15 years (at least on my end, assumed on his as well) 2 children, 6.5 dd & 5 ds