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Short of that the problem will never be solved
And you know that how? You cannot predict any outcome in anyone's relationship. You also fail to mention the requirement of the HD spouse to makes some changes of his/her own to encourage the LD spouse to compromise. You mention nothing about communication issues within a relationship that can contribute to one being the ld partner, you mention nothing about lifestyles, children, outside committments, work or anything else along those lines...that also contribute to someone being ld.

My ldh, did not have medical problems, did not have hygiene issues (or issues with my hygiene), did not have a problem with either of our weight (nor did I). But somehow, we managed to have some pretty friggin huge communication issues, and he had some pretty major past issues that were brought into our relationship...and gee, somehow we've managed to work past that. Somehow we are still married, and happier than ever (and yes our sex life is quite good now.)...neither of us are having to lump it and live with it, and gee...neither of us are getting it on the side either.

sop...you're a troll. OR...you are an HD spouse who isn't willing to take a good look at his/herself...and see the role you play in the issue at hand too.


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!