My sister talked to h the other day. They have kept in semi contact..maybe talked 3 times in the last year. She didn't even tell me she called him. She called him because she has left her husband but is not dating anyone else. She wanted his advice.
She didn't even tell me ~ H told me they talked for over a half hour. As soon as he left I called her. Here are the basics of what he said to her:
**He does wish he could come home sometimes but worries about what would happen if he decided it wasn't right and he left again. He doesn't want to do that to the boys or me.
**He and ow fight ALOT and about me. Ow is mad that h and I talk and get along so much. He basically told her she had to get over it because I haven't deserved anything he has done to me and I don't deserve for him to be mean to me right now for no reason.
**He said he made a mistake jumping into a relationship with ow. He said this a few times in the conversation.
**He said he doesn't think he could live with the guilt if he came back.
She said she didn't ask him about me and him at all he brought all this up himself to give his perspective since he left me. Regardless I sent him an email afterwards. Mistake or not I feel fine with it. I truly do. I told him that I will not bring it up again and that the ball is in his court. I am fine with whatever. I truly am.
This was all before I went to Vegas. I went to Vegas and had a GREAT time!!!!!!!!
I went to the dentist today for my final appt. I am GORGEOUS ;-) I go on Sept 21st for a photo shoot and they are going to make a commercial and I will be on the local news. Not to sure about all that but whatever. Maybe that will help me lose 10 pounds by then!
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955
