I am trying. Just having a reeeeally bad 24 hour period. Got into court tonight so that took my mind off of it for about two hours. She is still choosing to go out tonight and stay at her friends house. So I guess I can't talk to her about anything until tomorrow anyway.
But, I think I have to make a move on this. I think I need to really start to take some of this power back. I have let her do what she wants for several months now. But it has basically reduced me to nothing. I am no longer the same person I was. I have been so worried about her for so long that I have not realized that my well being has deteriorated. I am going to make an appointment with a MC tomorrow. Need to inject something else into this because the way things are proceeding is not getting things any better. I also may think that a MC would tell her that what she is doing is not right or healthy for our R. If I tell her that, she will peg me as trying to control her.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
