Originally Posted By: Mojo
If my 2bx were to become more differentiated, I would naturally be willing to reconcile with him.


This doesn't compute even a little bit.

Do you really think the only way that he was an unsatisfactory partner was his level of differentiation?

When he refused to hug you after your dad died, was that because of lack of differentiation?

And why do you say NATURALLY-- "I'd naturally be willing to reconcile."