Yeah, we have had no plan. If we had a plan, it might have been easier. It is like I was abandoned. That may be a little dramatic, but that's how it felt. Things don't "have" to get done, but I will just do it myself before I would deal with the consequences...which is something he knows. I don't want to ruin my credit for one thing. Another thing is about the yard. Here if the grass gets so high, the city will send someone out to mow it...then they send you a bill. The bill includes mower's fees as well as administrative fees....it comes out to about $150! I am not willing to let it get to that point.
I am going to try to sell the house first, at least for a couple of weeks. I am looking for a job, and if I get one then I would definitely go the realtor route. I have no problem with him getting half of everything, just with him expecting everything and doing nothing.
