Get me on a smoother ride........Need Advice

[SueS]

Thanks JAK-

The reason I asked about still giving little pats, hugs...etc. is because about a year ago....during one of his threats to leave, he said that I hadn't given him enough of that affection......although that had increased a lot before this all started. I don't want to push him further away though if he's not willing to accept it right now.

It's hard to be mysterious. I can try though. We have a pretty set schedule. He drops our D off at daycare and I pick her up. With no relatives in the area, it's hard to have someone watch her so I could go do something.

I just keep wondering if his anger the past few days has anything to do with any kind of shake up between him & OW. I haven't seen any calls between them in 3 days. Obviously, those could easily be erased from his phone or the calls could be to his work now, but they have always gone to his cell & he's never erased them before. I've given him no reason to think that I've been looking at it. I do it when he's asleep. Besides, he's the kind of guy that would make an off handed comment if he did suspect my looking. I know, I shouldn't, but that's the only thing I look at.

No response from an email I sent earlier today. Guess with his mood, I didn't really expect one.

I'd appreciate more advice. I'll be back on tomorrow sometime. I don't go on at home. I don't want my H to see anything.

Thanks everyone. Have a good evening.

SueS