I had my telephone call with my DB Coach today. She thinks that I should begin the LRT. It scares the hell out of me, but I can see her point. I'm going to re-read the bullet points and implement. I need to not be so available. She said that I should limit my time with him and that it should be quality not quantity time. I guess I'm sort of going through withdrawals. Maybe that is how he feels about the OW. My DB Coach says no more overnights.
I am ok with every night except Saturday. I don't have any single friends and Saturday has always been our date night. I do know that I will just have to find something to do. I haven't figured out what yet.
We have been getting so close, and I'm afraid that this will just start pulling us apart. But she is right as I have not seen any changes in him for the last 6 to 8 weeks. He has been too comfortable. Too sure of me.
Tonight is my last night of golf league. He said he was going to be at the house tonight doing some work. I expect that he will be there when I get home. I'm not going to hurry. I will take my time and when I get home be very nice and happy (if he is still there). I guess I need to do a 180 too.
I will give this 1 month. If I don't start seeing positive changes, then I don't know what I will do next. I will figure that out then.
Faith
H 48 W 57 M 15 yrs T 18 yrs No children EA 1/12/06 Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07 Back on 5/18/07 2nd Thread
It scares the hell out of me, but I can see her point. I'm going to re-read the bullet points and implement. I need to not be so available. She said that I should limit my time with him and that it should be quality not quantity time. I guess I'm sort of going through withdrawals. Maybe that is how he feels about the OW. My DB Coach says no more overnights. 
