Mrs. NOP: Unless I am misreading you, this all seems geared to be about you getting this info into your spouse's head.
Cobra: Well, that IS the key to recovery isn't it, for both people of course.
Getting the info into each person's head is NOT the key to recovery. But it's a very Five way of looking at the problem. Information is not the solution, nor is communication. If anything, Good Will is the solution. What difference does it make what's in your head or hers as long as you treat each other lovingly? Often words just complicate and deflect, doncha think?
