[/quote]Should I be that happy person who gives little pats, kisses & hugs here and there? I don't want to push him away, but I don't want to stop the affection I give either.[quote]
SueS,
No you should not say anything right now to him in my OP.
you should try being kind not unhappy looking and do little things you know he likes but be be lovingly distant. answer when he talks,but go do things without him be mysterious(i tell you this worked for me). Let him guess what you are doing. Make him wonder if you might be out getting a new life that may not include him.
What you need to do more than anything else is look at you. Is there any thing you can do for you that will make you happy as an individual? I see you have thought about what needed changing again in the M now change what you need to in you, for you.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
