Unfortunately my W thinks that I'm just being desperate instead of it my strong conviction to save the M.
Are you are coming across as desperate? Are you trying to tell her that your changing? Are you trying to convince her that the marriage will be better, that she should want to work on it? She should not throw it all away. Or are you giving her her space and not pursuing and are you listening to what she is saying "W thinks that I'm just being desperate instead of it my strong conviction to save the M!"
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”