hey runningoutoftime

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Start looking HOT...

...this one makes me laugh..did you see my pics ?....I did shave the goatee and left the stash & tuf...more stylish look...what do you do with a mix of golf pro/basketball coach ?...I will have to recruit a friend w/ some style...
I am running and lifting a bit harder, which helps get the mind right...my poor lab is going to be one fit pup..

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That will help with mystery.

...can I just read a mystery ?...this one throws me for a loop...

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Be loving, strong, happy and supportive to your wife when you do see her. Tell her that you "wish her happiness." This generosity, selflessness and giving will mean a lot. And she will be losing it.


...this is the one I have taken a concentrated effort on...I look to the story of the prodigal son...the Father sent him on his way with everything the son desired and probaly gave him a pat on the back on his way out the door...easier said than done, but I think you are right being selfless,so,so key...

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Also, if there's any VERY REMOTE chance of this divorce not going through. She won't stop it if there's bitterness, blame or unhappiness. You, your family, and your home have to appear, and feel, like the "best" place to be. Make it wonderful...

...Profound I never thought like this...I am trying to get out of the way of herself/guilt so she might come to herself and wake up form the spell she is in...


Good Stuff...thanks for the encouragement and to do list...SorryDog