Frustrated and More Saddened #3

[Heimlich]

Stew,

I've been angry with myself for a few months now, once I realized that I had a large role to play in pissing my marriage away. It took me way too long to realize that. Once I did, as my thread title says, is it too late for my WAW?

The question you have to answer for yourself is, Can I forgive my W IF she is having an A? I never thought my answer to that question would be yes, but, lo and behold, it was.

Despite my first answer, I think WAW has a better idea. Take some time to simmer down and get your feelings under control. Schedule a time with your Dr to get tested. Once you're a little calmer, can you keep on acting as if in the hopes that she'll come back or can you not work on this while you think your W is having an A? What can YOU accept?

I feel your pain and I'm sorry you're going through this. I know how much it hurts. However, you're one up on where I was when I found out about my W. You're head is pretty much removed from your ass. My cranial-rectal reversion may have taken too long.

BD