Hi everyone

Considering the fact that it is a year ago today since my husband walked out of the door, i actually feel ok. My husband started texting flirty messages today, at one point he said that if i ever want uncomplicated sex just to let him know. As i see it there is nothing uncomplicated about the situation, we are married, we have a daughter together and he is still living with the woman who he had an affair with. I did text back and say that i am sure that if he wanted uncomplicated sex then there are plenty of women who would be willing, he didn't need me for that. He definately still finds me physically attractive but we don't seem to move forward from that.

I do want to have sex with my husband because it has been such a long time and i really miss him but nothing less than it being the real thing, feeling etc, and i would need to know that he is not sleeping with anyone else. I have far too much respect for myself to settle for anything less. I am his wife, the mother of his little girl, if he wants just sex without meaning then he needs to find it elsewhere.

Got a busy weekend coming up , going out on Saturday night for a few drinks then got a Christening to go to on Sunday and D3 and i are going away overnight on Monday. I have got the rest of the week off work so i plan to try and decorate one of the rooms, although i was never really any good at painting lol .

Hope everyone is ok

Nicky

Last edited by nickyf; 08/22/07 07:00 PM.
Me 34
H 33
D3
together 10 years
married 2 years
Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved