We owe money on it jointly. He has been approved for a loan to get it into his name only. The reason for changing it now is because he says it is over and there is no reason to wait. That is fine, I want it out of my name anyway. I have no doubt that he won't make that payment. In January he will not have a job and even if he does, he will have a huge paycut. I know I will be making more than him in Jan even if I stay right where I am. He will be having a hard time then and I know it is a ways away...but I have a feeling he will be asking me for help. He better be nice right now!!
H just called a few minutes ago and asked about taking out half of what was in the checking account. At least he asked I guess. I asked him to please wait until I got paid on Friday because there are some bills that will come out probably tomorrow. He said that was fine. That is all I want right now is for him to be a little bit nice about everything. He has just seemed so angry towards me and I just don't understand it.
If T told you not to worry...try not to worry. Since you have been with him so long, he may give you a good deal or work something out. I know what you mean about him washing his hands of it. They don't understand that SOMEBODY has to take care of it. Maybe he should pay YOU for doing the work. Or at least half of what someone would cost...and then you could get someone to do it maybe every other time.
