Keep doing the jelouse thing. It sure does wonders in my stich!! I am also seperated,not leagelly and no D papers file AND my H still pays the house while living w/ OW.
Lately H was starting to doubt there was the possibility of OM in my life and said I can never give him a name, well I did a few days ago & now that is all he talks about. He asks all kinds of questions. My is diff in that I try to keep my mystery in all and tell him to call before coming over but H insists it is still his house he pays and I should not even try to move his stuff out of our room (which I just did not too long).