Well H came home for a couple days, first started off cold. It was early morning and he was eating a sandwich..I sat down, took his hand (which he didn't want) told him that I have too much stress in my life with my sister and want to put our relationship on the back burner. He agreed. He pulled me to his lap, held me, led me to the couch and we laid there most the night in each others arms...so nice. Of course that was then, this is now...new day. I got the speech, I expected it. He talked about his weight, his exercising, etc. Every time he brought up OW I told him I didn't want to hear it. He had her pic in his truck -- bra, underwear and fur coat..right next to our family pic. My S20 found it and destroyed it -- he is not happy with H. S20 asked if we were going to get a divorce (I wasn't there at the time) and H said "probably". S20 is hurt, mad and told me to move on! H was very good fixing car brakes for other son, odds and ends.
They were going to go to the Childrens Museum and H told me to come along, also took my on cycle ride, out for a beer, and...yes we had great sex....so he doesn't love me? Treated me like he did. He told me hadn't been with anyone (prob cuz she's been locked up) so.... I don't think he'll be coming back soon, since his jailbird has been released. Come to find out she's got 3 kids--I don't pic H stepping in to be a daddy anytime soon. Also, of course she gave him the I don't expect anything from you, I'll do it on my own talk. She may be going back to jail again next month...dunno.
Anyway--I'd like to say I'll step back and see how they do together, I'm hoping he comes to his senses. Odd thing is we had been getting alog for so long, I'll attribute this all to MLC. I wish I were stronger and could just move on like DS20 said. How do you give up 24yrs? H can.Called to tell me he cleared out his dresser for me...aint that nice? In other words, I'm outta here! I'm doing the DB way--as much as it pains me.
H is OTR driver - 48 Me 49 married 24yrs 2 sons, 22/20 H going thru MLC
