Klm, I am not sure what you are trying to do with the car. If you want to just put it in his name you can go to DMV and get a title transfer. If you owe money on it jointly that is another issue and you may have to do something to get your name off the loan. Call the lender and ask them, even if it is capitol one.
I am going to have the same problem. I put in the agreement that he would have to pay me the difference between his Honda, which is still financed, and my older Ford as I have always had the older car. The loan is joint for the Honda.
I have an appointment with T today. Another worry, I have 60 visits a year with him and now I am going to lose my health insurance in maybe a 120 days. T told me not to worry last week, we will work something out. Losing a therapist I am bonded to is almost as bad as divorce. I have seen him once a week for 4 years. I am so afraid today for some reason. It has been raining here for a week and the yard is growing like a jungle and is too wet to cut it. I am so sick of the outside stuff. H thinks he can just do nothing as he has washed his handsb of the house. I think he should think about the fact he is going to get keep more of his 401k as payment. I am going to talk to T about that. I think I am going to tell H that if he is not going to help here I will pay to have it done and he will pay half. Only trouble is I don't have cash to do any of it either.... Believe me I think too much...
Just thought of this, why do you need to change the car now? Is it because of the payment? Your H sounds like he is doing the same as mine, worried about the stupid details and not looking at the important bills. You hang in there, we will make it through this.
