oh, ps: Some women DO report that direct mechanically assisted clit stimulation, then gets it used to that artificially intense frequency, and it is then more difficult to enjoy human level stimulation.
different women, are different.
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Why didn't I feel free enough to just enjoy what I wanted to enjoy? Why did I inhibit myself and second guess what he wanted?
because you care about your husband's feelings, and that is a GOOD thing. dont second-guess your choices about that now. you made the right choice, presuming that you were listening to things that he actually SAID, vs things that he MIGHT have said.
(possibly, your approach might have been better. for example, some men enjoy getting to play with something "together", rather than feeling "replaced". ("power tools" for them to use? heheh) but some men dont like that stuff at all.) you gotta ask, is all)
Last edited by Dom R; 08/22/0703:58 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
