PS: i dont think you asking about the present "from both of you" was dumb. and I think it's nice that he said "okay". that means he's still ok with that sort of thing. and thats why you asked in the first place
thanks Dom.
I was starting to think that all the vibrator talk made my post get lost in the shuffle.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing