well interesting development,

My wife just called me from work, which she has not done in I don't know how long, Heck she barely calls at all.

I asked what was up and she said the people at work were getting on her nerves, I asked who and she just said everybody, I asked a couple of names and she said no not them, and I said who and she just said everyone.

So I just said, well that sucks. (I don't think that is the reason she called at all)

Then she went on to tell me that she really appreciated the PB&J yesterday, she said it was very thoughtful, especially that I gave it to her yesterday (anniversary).

I forgot to mention that I gave her a cd with one song on it, AUSTIN by blake shelton. Im not a huge country fan, mostly I like slow R&B but these country songs seem to be made for people in our my situation.

She said she listened to the CD on the way to work, and that it was very sweet.

She said all of this with out me asking anything, I was just on the phone listening the whole time.

I told her that there are many songs that express the way I feel but I thought that one just was perfect, it was either between that or "wait for you" by elliott yamin

here is the link to austin if anyone hasn't heard it and wants to listen for free just click Austin

and here is the link to Wait For you just click the song on the page

she said she loves that song by Elliott Yamin, I said next time you hear it know that I am dedicating it to you. She said AWW that's sweet. She spoke as if she still had alot on her mind.

She said well that is all for now, I said okay. End of call


This is a major development, she was obviously thinking about me and found it necessary to call to tell me how much she appreciated all the stuff.

I think the key to it all was that I just gave with no expectations of anything in return. Anniversary was not even mentioned. I left it on her door, If I gave it in person she probably would've felt bad that she didn't have anything to give back to me.

Unconditional love with no expectations can speak volumes. True love is about giving, when you can give from your heart and show that you don't need any validation or expect anything, it is undeniable and will not go unseen.

normally I would've made her feel bad for not getting me anything, or I would've brought up the fact that I felt so bad that this was happening on our anniversary. I did none of that.

No other man can hold a flame to me, No other man will show her the unconditional love that I show.

If there is another man, I do say If. He will screw himself in the long run. He will definitely have expectations for some kind of reciprocation for his nice deeds.

patience is definitely a virtue, and time is on my side.