Amy I do have a question for you and didn't know if I should ask on your thread or mine.
How long do you think it took your H to get past his anger? Or has he yet?
His initial anger over it all I'd say had passed as I was coming out of MLC. He had completely detached and was moving on emotionally and mentally if nothing else.
Then you gotta remember, I stayed in the house fighting to save us for another 9 or 10 months before I took my grand swan dive when I posted myself on that "other" website in an effort to get his attention. He filed for separation after that and two months later I moved out of the house and he moved back in. That was 8 months ago and you know well my battles since then...
I know that, as I have, he has endured moments previously foreign to him - and that they have brought the anger back to the surface. I don't think anger goes away, I think it just changes into the regret that something so terrible happened but praise that it was for your good. That's what I think becomes of the anger. So it doesn't go away, it evolves but you both have to work at it. Mostly you, probably, too. I doubt very seriously my husband's anger has completely evolved.
