Kelley I can only dream. Honestly though, I look at the person standing in front of me and I don't know her, she even looks diffrent to me. That is the weirdest part is my perspective changed. I'm still desperately in love with the wife of 6 months ago, but alas she is gone.
On that note, we are getting along like champs. I can not believe it. She is seriously becoming so nice in our interactions. You know I can say this too, I had a horrible career experiance betwen 9-6 months ago. It was crippling and I took it badly. Just zoned out all the time, I'm sure she lost all respect for me as a man during that time. Now that I'm standing up for myself I can see it in her eyes, she is about to jump on me. Dange that would be nice, haha.
Well she gave me the papers last night. She is hanging herself, she is asking for nothing and giving me everything. Honestly, I don't know if she wants to be a victim and martyr, her mother was for hers. I don't care though, I can walk away without any financial hit. I keep almost everything, I mean everything. Her request for alimony and child support is so minimual I could probably pay half a years portion at a time.
I have talked with two attorney friends and I'm trying to get in to see a divorce attorney. But right now the recommendation is let her file, push her to file. They said she can't really change her stance after she files and then all I have to do is agree.
I guess for DB purposes I could wait and see, as in let her file then I can drag my feet for 90 days and see if anything is salvagable. May not be a bad idea.
On the other hand I talked with a few ladies last night, had a good time out. Didn't get any phone numbers and wouldn't have wanted to with these gals, but it was some fun flirting none the less. I'm really enjoying this single life.
