Mixed signals - catfan's continual saga part???

[Dom R]

Pfft. you didnt need to get your head messed up with "the secret". that's wierdo mumbo-jumbo garbage.
You just needed to re-read divorcebusting
The positive constructive things you said, are right out of there:

Positive Mental Attitude
Choosing small steps/goals to aim for

etc.

I really do hope the best for your situation. It just looks a whole lot like other ones that have been revealed to be deceitful spouses. (actually, it seems to mostly be wives that do this. husbands tend to take more of a "forget you" attitude, it seems)