Heim, I have to agree with everyone else here. You cannot tell her that the OM will end up hurting her at sometime. One - she isn't going to listen to you and just think that you are saying it out of jealousy or "hoping" and two- if he hurts her then she needs to go thru that.
I am hoping that my H's OW is going to leave him or get bored with him. Her kids are all grown and she sounds like she is ready to just party. My H needs to start taking visitation fromt the kids now that he is moving back into our house. I hope she finds somebody else while he is unavailable on these weekends.
I did tell him tho this past Friday when we talked about CS and visitation that these weekends are for him to spend the time with his kids and that he should't be bringing her around them as it would be too devastating for them right now because they still really don't understand what is happening.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
