Amy I do have a question for you and didn't know if I should ask on your thread or mine.

How long do you think it took your H to get past his anger? Or has he yet?

BTW - I liked his comment about the refi too! WOO HOO

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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