No drama last night thank God. I blocked him from my IM yesturday b/c I was not in any mood to argue over stupid s***. So, I had hoped you prolly understood I was avoiding him.
I made something easy and quick for dinner- cuban sandwhiches for the girls and & I. I sat down to eat & did not offer H any since here lately he turns it down (on a health kick right now). He asked if I mad him one and I said no w/ your healthy ways and all didn't think u wanted any. So I made him one.
He took the girls out for icecream and they sat at the park to eat it( new for him maybe taking my advice on how alone time /w kids is so much fun 4 me).
When they returned I was in my bedroom ironing and H made a comment on how I obviously been "wearing the hell out of the bed" b/c its new and it squeaks so much. H even looked underneath the bed! He said it did not squeak when he use to sleep in it. I said I didnt think he go to the chance to sleep in it before he left (weird what he DOES remember)!
After H left the girls told me how they ALL told him how they wanted him to move back. I told them that he prolly thinks I put them up to that. H asked the girls to state the reasons why he should return. D10 said a few reasons but the last one was the one that got me & I am sure it got to H- she said b/c I want to be a REAL family!!I aske her what daddy said to that & she said he jsut took adouble look at her & told them that if he does he wants them to keep there rooms clean & for mommy and him to not argue so much and that mommy would have to start to cook healthy (he's having a lot of cholesterol & health issues)& that would mean we would ALL have to eat healthy.
He aslo told them that it would mean he would no longer see OW and no more mentioning her name & would you guys be ok w/ that? They said yes. I told him next time he mentions would they be ok with that, they need to say we want mommy as our mom not OW! Can u beleive the question? Does he serouisly think they want her over me?? WTH?
