Well, I think now what he did was open another account in his name and change his direct deposit. He did say last night that he would write me a check for half of all the bills. I told him that he should pay me half for the computer because it wasn't fair that he just got to take what was paid for. He said he would do that. Now, I just hope that he does what he says he will do. If he does, this will probably be better for me considering how he was spending money.
Thanks for offering to help with the house, we'll see what happens. He said he was going to come do some work to it this weekend and then we'll put it up for sale. It has increased in value in the short time we have had it...so maybe we could break even after closing costs and fees.
Actually H has always needed money to make him feel good. We have never fought about money, but he has always had issues with it. His credit problems happened when he was in college way before the air force. I am sure that the military could do something if he stopped paying...but I'll give him a chance before I go that route.
Yeah, H tried to tell me that the money in the savings account is there because HE made it in Iraq. I tried to tell him that if I had not been here working also then there wouldn't have been any money to put in savings. While he was gone, I used his check to pay the bills and put my entire check in savings. Also when he got back we got a pretty sizable check for family separation that he wouldn't have gotten if he wasn't married. He doesn't understand this. Another thing is that his check is more right now because he is married. He doesn't understand this either.
The thing with the car is just putting it in his name. There is nothing wrong with it. His loan offer is only good until Sept 1st. I have never sold a car so if anyone could help me out with this...I believe what he needs to do is send the check to where we have it financed. We can't just go into somewhere and take care of it because it is financed through capital one. Then I think maybe we have to go to the courthouse or DMV to actually change everything over. Really I have no clue, I told him to find out and then I could possibly take a couple of hours off work.
