DaveJ, go visit this site and read the page on detachment. I know you have been struggling with it as have I. But, for me the struggle with my mis-interpretation of the definition that applies to our situations.
Yeah I read that just this morning actually. Sure didn't make me shut up though. It's like I can't control myself.... When I get down, I can't keep my mouth shut. Need to work on that. Called and canceled my therapist session. Just ain't helping me. I'm feeling like I'm paying $$$ to hear myself talk..... Signed up with this other therapy place that seems to be BT based. Hope to set some goals. It's run by a church but it's free so I can't complain. 10 sessions. I guess by the end of that either the W will either want to start the piecing or call it quits....
Now I'm recalling something. On Sat afternoon when I dropped the W and the kids at the airport, I swear she was about to cry and she kept telling me to get going instead of wait for them to get through the security. Is that a positive? Do you guys think that maybe she does have feelings for me and actually is thinking that she might miss me?
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M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
