He's still with her, and I'm moving on (part 3)

[mkultra]

Hey Hope, You do not need no stinkin' divorce to be free! Take the reigns and be free today! You do not need a divorce paper to act like you are single. I am not telling you to go to a strip bar, but you are your own woman! Plus, there really is no competition with any OW. She will always be second fiddle in everyone's eyes, even your H and his family. It is true! My H has my name tattooed on his arm and his proginy have my eyes, NO ONE can compete with that. They should all be jealous of us, if this was a competition, but it is not. Really, look at some smokin' hot women who have withstood public affairs: Jackie O, Debbie Reynolds, Jennifer Aniston, Hallie Berry, Laura Dern, Uma Thurman, Reece Witherspoon-my personal fave LBS! If I see a magazine cover of Reece I buy it to see how she is doing as a single mom with those two kids after she dumped that cheating H of hers!
You are awesome like Reece! And liek Charlotte from Sex and the Ciy! She had a problem having a baby and she ended up marrying her divorce lawyer and adopting a baby from China. Sorry these are not real people to us, we are real people, but we can learn lessons from thei pain too. I just did not want you to feel alone right now because you are not. You are in our thoughts.