THE whittled letter is MUCH BETTER!!!

You cannot go to Plan B with any expectations at all from the WS. Thems the rules. No expectations, no ultimatums, no declarations of emotions or disappointments,no control at all, only control over your own actions. Remember they already know that you love them and do not want a divorce. Do not even state that. You must act as if you are already in love with someone else, yourself!

I am with you in Plan B territory. It has already made me feel better as I am on Day 2. Day 1 was he#@. I can actually sense us missing each other, it is the oddest sensation. I understanf Plan B can take up to two years, but let's be positive. A few months in a lifetime may be worth it? Such a fog has lifted and I feel empowered, until the next trigger.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."