Hey Irish, I just decided to file for legal separation. I noticed my county has free or low cost mediation. It is preferable now to go to mefiation and keep matters of custody out of the courts. It is deemed in the best interest of the child. Perhaps your county has something like that on their website. I still have not filed because I have one more duck to put in its row. I want to make sure I can move with my kids in case I get a job out of state. Don't get in an uproar but I am starting to fear what my H is actually capable of. I am not thinking of keeping th ekids from my H but I read I could move more easily if we were just married folks. He would just have to leave his drug buddies and insidious life style and follow us to a less expensive place I guess.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
