ok another update. i calmed down, sat and watched a movie with the other kids that was really good, that got my mind off his thoughtlessness. He brought my son home a little after 8, I was really hoping he didn't get out of the truck, but he walked him to the door. I just acted like any other time, hey how you doing, etc. He walked over to grab the baby, told him I was just about to change him cuz he was poopy, so he proceeded to change the baby's diaper. I walked around did some things, and stayed in the kitchen. He then yells from the front room, ok be here tomorrow at 9:30. (I go to work and he comes and gets the baby to watch him). I said ok and thanks for taking S10 to practice and for changing the diaper. He says, you don't have to thank me for that.