There and Back, #2

[mkultra]

I am sorry I misprinted that site was called Smart Marriage not Marriage Builders. Anywho, it did state that an indicator of a successful reconciliation after an affair is the amount of remorse the WS shows when the LBS acts crazy and obsessive about needing to know details about the affair! Well, then that must be why we are in this land called limbo because that remorse stick has not hit our Spouses. That sense of entitlement is not a very good indicator and we need to understand that. I am pretty torn up about the amount of sympathy I get from a perfect stranger and not even a hug or tear from my own H and Best Friend of my whole life. At least your H feels remorse and dread and that is a very good indicator for reconciliation.