Bruce1, actually, you may not have done anything wrong with the romantic gestures-especially when considering DB/DR. You are supposed to do 180s- and those were them. It's unfortunate that it also could come off like 'pressuring' but I think you did good with those things.
Does she ever go to where you live? Is there anything romantic or sentimental there? Would that be a 180 from the 'old' you?
(I'm not positive that *should* be your tact- I am just wondering.)
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
