I actually feel a little at peace. I feel like with DB, I had to bite my tongue a LOT, which is funny since one of our issues was me not sharing my feelings and getting into that place.
KS - I know how you feel here. I don't know how to DB - I never pleaded, begged, spoke of our R, etc. We never fought prior to the bomb. The DB counselor tells me to do what he wouldn't expect, yet DBing is everything I have always done. I have always bitten my tongue, never shared my feelings and this is one of the reasons we are where we are now.
I am jealous of you - I want to do the exact same thing that you did. I'm angry and, for once in our "marriage" I want him to know it - I don't want to gloss over it like I have done in the past. He sure wouldn't expect it. But I keep holding back because of DBing.
Have you heard from him yet? What was his reaction?
