Or not and you will be better off without him. I just feel like sometimes we are just getting rid of bad men. Sorry if that goes against the DB principles but he is not seeing you anymore. He is only seeing himself. No matter how pretty your grass is he is not seeing you at the moment. Most likely, according to Glass on Smart Marriages , he will look back and regret breaking up the marriage. But the time when that remorse comes, the LBS has often moved on. I am now beginning the process of moving on without my H and it is not such a bad place and I am sure it will be empowering and much more attractive to him and any other person. I feel it will draw an even better person into my life. I do not know what the statistics are on upgrading but maybe we should not look at it that way.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
