Will, Have you tried Mort Fertel's book, Marriage Fitness? It's more pragmatic about building a marriage. I found that it resonated with me. Almost all of the concepts are the same as in DBing, but the emphasis is on restoring love.
Can't remember his site, but google his name or the title and his site will come up. Decent, though repetitive, articles posted daily as well.
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My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
