*sigh* The John Gottman book may actually have did me in with my M. The W asked me to go see a couples therapist. I refused cuz after reading the Gottman book it says that most therapist are whack and 70% fail. I really should've went and show her that I am listening to what she wants. Now she refuses to go to one even though I want to give it a try.... Of course she refuses to work through the Gottman book with me as well.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
