That is amazing Sara. I do think that it is important to acknowledge your spouses needs/desires and then act accordingly. I don't understand why some don't think that is important. I guess your friend would prefer to be able to do as she pleases and let her H know how to feel about it...:) How many times though, in the past, have I made THAT mistake?? I am learning so much through this process and I'm grateful for that. I just wish I could have learned it an easier way - like maybe learned by reading about it rather than experiencing it first hand!
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley