No one knows why they got divorced after so long, everything was hush hush about that situation until it blew up. I just saw different ends of the spectrum within one family and I know there are no easy answers in life but the couple that have been married so long are by far the happiest. It was an interesting weekend. H. and I got along better and we actually had some fun, but he starts thinking everything is "normal" and when I brought up the A. yesterday he became upset. . Love, Violets