On a more serious note; I did call him. I said "dude, you left your mail here." Him 'yeah...' Me 'And next time you move a ladder try to avoid my shoes! You squashed one of 'em" Him chuckling "oops" Me "Friends daughter's wedding is Friday" him "oh yeah? Where is it?" Me "such and so place" Him "what time" me "7" Him "okay" me 'um. so are you going?' Him 'probably. um, Yeah. yeah I'm going. Is daughter going?" me "no. too far" him "okay." (I could hear voices in the background so he was with some guys and was keeping his answers short.) me "shall I get something from both of us?" (DUMB- WHY did I do that?????? argh!!!!) Him "yeah! that'd be great." and then we said our good byes.
*sigh* I felt like I needed to at least tell him because he loves that family and would be upset to find out he missed it. Now I am wondering WHY I want to torture myself by seeing him. WHY WHY WHY???
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
