Update: NC since 9 Jul 07. Contact about kids via one phone call, the rest thru text, now changed to email. I'm starting to feel much better!!!
Kids are doing great. I've told them the truth of the matter. We've had a couple of long talks. They said that they worried they'd be abandoned, that buy leaving WS that I would leave them. Older one said too "Never not tell them what's going on again". The little one is not happy with her mother's actions. The older is quiter. She asked who OM was. All of your guy's advice concerning my kids has helped a lot.
WS still has made slight "Poisoning of the Well" statements" in her conversations with kids. Mostly claiming that I'm mad at her and that that's why we are divorcing. And that she's done nothing "wrong".
All in all, the kids and I are in a much better place. The "chaos" in WS world seems to still be happening. SIL's BF ended up in hospital after getting his ass whipped at bar for the umpteenth time. Poopy sewer water flood at WS house that sat for a few days. Stuff DD's have mentioned.
DD's say they like our "new" house. They are here, "home", the vast majority of nites. They have play dates and a couple sleepovers per week at WS house. They like that we have family meals, that there is no chaos and feel taken care of here. Life is good. DD's are good. I love 'em. I think they will survive this well.
Funny, only roller-coaster for a few hours about a week ago. Hmmmmm... I like it !!!!!!!!!!!! BoB
