I read once that it's bad to use a vibrator because then a man will never be able to live up to the vibrator standards.
(Meaning, no guy can vibrate at however many times per minute.)

True? False? Irrelevant?

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing