Well, I don't really understand the sitch, but here is my 2 cents.
If H is moving out in a few days and has clearly told you that he does not want to be your romantic/sexual partner, then give him space.
Go with the vibrator.
Actually he moved out on August 4th and that is when I cut him off from sex. (But he believes it wouldn't be hard for him to talk me into it if he really wanted. whatever.)
yes, seems that something powered by several C batteries is in order.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
